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2026年7月12日星期日

12 July 2026 Dating a Nerd 👓

I used to scoff at someone if they post anything about the partner gives to them on social media.
The only reason was because I thought that was really nothing to show nor brag. 
But guess what, the younger me would've looked at me (not in a good way) if she sees the post today. 
🍪 and I went to a bookstore near my place last two days. You know what, the thing of dating a nerd (in a good way I mean, which I have been praying for years) is you will have endless conversations about books,  authors, publications and book signing events. 
While we were hanging out in the bookstore, I saw a book which I was quite interested in, sat there for awhile to leaf through but finally decided to put it back 'cause I could spend my money in a better place HAHA.

But I have been thinking about it since then. I told 🍪 this morning that I am still thinking about that book and I think it's calling me. 
Evening just now, he called to come down before he headed to gathering with his friends. When I saw him, he was carrying a paper bag (which I thought was bread) and a cup of hot chocolate (menstrual D-3).
Opened it, TA-DA! It's that book! 

You know the best part of the whole thing is, I actually just briefly mentioned about it in the bookstore, and this morning I just said: I am still thinking about that book. (I didn't even mention which one) And he got it for me already! 🥹

Call me whatever-you-want but dude. He's a keeper. I have been sorting out my own insecurities and which one I need to voice out to keep the relationship works.
And as I always tell him: 🍪 You're such a gem. We are both equally lucky to find each other. 



 

2026年7月7日星期二

7 July 2026

沒錯,六月的期末結束之後我就認真在休息和偶爾的處理事情。
六月我去了兩次的高雄:第一次是和 🍪 去聽鹿特丹愛樂(Shani)、第二次是和慈庭之恩和學妹去看 La Boheme 歌劇。
第一次在高雄也給了自己很多第一次,例如:第一次經歷人生的耳水不平衡、第一次在台灣看醫生、第一次吃羊骨髓、和 🍪 去逛美術館等。
第二次去高雄乘搭了人生第一次的客運,可以說是人生有一次嘗試就夠了,以後要乖乖搭高鐵。我們也去逛了美術館。
嗯,沒錯。我不知道從什麼時候(應該是來台灣之後),不管我願不願意,我的人生就是不停的在逛書局、美術館、音樂廳。(和 🍪 之後更是變本加厲,謝了!)

然後因為 🍪 在當兵然後很狡猾的在摯友裡發了想要買海報,所以我請了許慈庭和我一起去瘋狂排隊,然後因為我們沒準備海報的文件夾,我們就用了恐嚇的方式(說要把海報對折這樣容易收藏)被後面排隊的電影愛好者聽到,就很熱心的送了我們一個文件夾並說:請你們不要對折。我們會很心疼。(✌️ 任務完成)

靠近 30 歲的可以明顯感受到的絕對是身體健康快速的下滑。胃是情緒器官說得還真沒錯,現在只要連續幾天處於焦慮狀態,胃就會開始罷工。胃痛的時長也隨著年齡增加,沒在跟你開玩笑。現在只要開始胃痛,那絕對是到半夜 / 隔天。

情緒千變萬化,昨天去學校處理行政的事情要回家的時候經過了操場。放眼望去是美麗的天空和音樂系,可是心情很平靜,沒有激起任何的波瀾。身體好像已經完全接受自己已經讀了兩年,接下來在學校的生活和參與感會明顯減少的事實。
對於人生要想下一個目標前進這件事,有在慢慢調整狀態和開始思考我要的方向。但考上指揮這件事好像就是我花了好多年要完成的目標,當這個目標達到了之後,我好像也不知道我下一步要怎麼樣。
目前對生活的想法就是,先解決經濟狀況;然後盡可能的活在當下。
祝:安好。



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